7 Days W/O Computer Bag – uhgg

I just got back from a trip to Kentucky to perform a wedding of some friends. About an hour and a half into the 11 hour trip, I discovered that I forgot my computer bag! Gasp. I have been known to forget a child, rather than forget my computer bag (not really, but almost). That’s why it shocked my wife when once I realized this tragic fact, I decided to press on with our trip and not U-turn our SUV.

Although it was a bit of a hassle having to get all of my premarital counseling notes scanned and e-mailed to me so I could put on the final touches of the wedding sermon, it wasn’t all that bad. In fact, I found it liberating. Here are a few things that I realized…

1. People are more important than computers and projects.

2. It’s amazing how much you can learn when you are “present” in a conversation, instead of thinking about when the next time you will be able to work on a project on your laptop.

3. Handwriting is beneficial. It allows you to brainstorm on paper and let’s you think more creatively (sometimes).

4. I was able to relax without the noose of a computer and e-mail and files and projects (repeat until dizzy).

5. It was a reminder that technology is a servant, not a master.

I’m sure I’m not the only one who has experienced this phenomenon. What was your story and your experience?

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Dear Pastor, Are you a Prostitute or a Prophet?

At first, you may call me offensive. That’s okay. But let me explain.

We all want to be liked…yet, at what expense? Pastors across the country are subtly cashing in their calling for a paycheck. Even though they know the right thing to do in most instances, they cower from the truth in order to keep their lifestyle.

A prostitute is someone who gets paid to perform. You give them money and they give you what you want.

However, a prophet speaks the truth.

Here’s what this looks like…

Prostitutes
Give you what you WANT
Get paid to PERFORM
Their audience is the CROWD
Work for MONEY
EARTHLY focused
Are walking AMEBAS (no spine)

Prophets
Give you what you NEED
Work for the LORD
Their audience is the KING
Serve for MINISTRY
HEAVENLY focused
Are VERTEBRATES (spine)

Sadly, many “progressive” pastors and preachers, authors and speakers have fallen into the trap of telling their respective crowds (followers) what they want to hear in order for them to keep their paychecks. I’ve seen pastors compromise their biblical stance or convictions because “if they didn’t, they would lose the denominational support and their insurance” and “my family is counting on this job”.

Really?

In my time as a pastor, I have had to make several tough calls that had to go against the grain of popular opinion. They were tough calls, bathed in prayer and wise counsel, but at the end of the day, the decision had to be made to either follow God’s Word or follow the crowd.

As we face the crossroads of decisions (big and small), it is high time that we grow a backbone, stand on our convictions, trust God and leave the result to Him.

Scripture is replete with examples of men and women who stood for their convictions:

Daniel 3:12 “There are certain Jews whom you have set over the affairs of the province of Babylon: Shadrach, Meshach, and Abed-Nego; these men, O king, have not paid due regard to you. They do not serve your gods or worship the gold image which you have set up.”

1 Kings 22:14 “And Micaiah said, ‘As the Lord lives, whatever the Lord says to me, that I will speak.’”

Daniel 1:8 “But Daniel purposed in his heart that he would not defile himself with the portion of the king’s delicacies, nor with the wine which he drank…”

Jeremiah 20:9
“Then I said, ‘I will not make mention of Him,
Nor speak anymore in His name.’
But His word was in my heart like a burning fire
Shut up in my bones;
I was weary of holding it back,
And I could not.”

Galatians 1:10
“Am I now trying to win the approval of men, or of God? Or am I trying to please men? If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a servant of Christ.”

Matthew 12:34
“Brood of vipers! How can you, being evil, speak good things? For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.”

These are just a few of the hundreds of examples we see in Scripture about men who took a stand, grew a backbone, pleased God rather than serve a paycheck and made a difference for the Kingdom in their generation.

You don’t have to be a pastor to apply these truths.

In your workplace, are you compromising your convictions in order to get ahead? Prostitute.

At home, are you lying and deceiving in order to get what you want? Prostitute.

In church, are you telling people what they WANT to hear instead of what they NEED to hear? Prostitute.

God is bringing forth a new generation of world changers who are willing to take a stand on biblical truth and become modern-day prophets, whose sole mission is to follow the precedent found in 1 Kings 22:14 “As the Lord lives, whatever the Lord says to me, that I will speak.”

Question: What are some other biblical and modern day examples of both prostituting and being a prophet?

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Is Your Marriage On the Rocks? (Or Know Someone’s That Is)

Is Your Marriage On the Rocks?

Marriage is one of the most amazing pictures of God’s relationship us – for in it we get the opportunity to daily experience forgiveness, trust, grace, joy, frustration, sadness and so much more.  However, I am convinced now more than ever that most marriages within the “church” are just as messed up as outside the church.  We have the same fights, jealously, lack of trust, no communication, lack of respect and negative attitude.  We have traded in our LOVE to simply be ROOMMATES.

Why is that?

I think that there are a number of reasons, but as I read my One-Year-Bible this morning (which I highly recommend), I came across a passage that I read at almost every wedding that I perform – 1 Corinthians 13.  But since this was a new version of the Bible, I took time to actually READ what it said, instead of just skimming over it (which I have a bad habit of doing when I have memorized verses :( ).

I want you to take some time and SLLLOOOOWWWWLLLYYY read over the following verses…

1 Corinthians 10:4-7, 11

“Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance…When I was a child, I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child. But when I grew up, I put away childish things.”

The last part really gripped me.  I have NEVER seen this before.

In the midst of talking about love, the Apostle Paul commands us to “put away childish things.”  In essence, God is telling us that we need to approach our relationships (all relationships) with a grown-up mentality.  Here’s a list that I created that helps me separate what it means to be a child vs. adult…

Children Adults
Selfish Giving
Makes Ultimatums Self Sacrificing
The Grass is Greener Over There The Grass is Green Where I Water It
I Want What They Have I’m Content With What I Have
My Needs Are First Others Needs Are First
Unforgiving, Hold Grudges Abound In Forgiveness Like Christ
Quits And Moves On Sticks It Out
Finds Fault On Smallest Detail Love The PERSON For Who They Are
Superficial Deep
Focuses On Happiness Focuses On Holiness

Obviously this is not an exhaustive list but you get the point.  Let’s make a commitment to become the men and women that God has called us to be.

Grow up.  Put away childish things.  Love like you mean it.

pk

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Grace Church Pastor’s Retreat Update – The New Guy’s View

Vince Lombardi once said that “the greatest moment in a man’s life is when he lies broken and bruised on the field of battle…victorious.” I love this quote because it speaks to the heart of a man. True progress comes through pain. If this is the case, then we have had a successful first half of the fall pastor’s retreat at Grace Church – because I’m sure that our minds are all painfully filled to the brink…but it’s a good pain!


From 8-4 everyday, tucked away in an offsite conference room, we sit, stand, laugh, argue, discuss, dream, challenge and brainstorm for the future of Grace Church and the glory of God. As the “new guy” on the staff, I have a few observations as to why Grace Church, in my opinion, stands head and shoulders above any church in America. It starts with the folks in that room and here are my observations…

1. Vision – We are consumed with God’s vision for what COULD and SHOULD be for our generation.
2. Leadership – We are dedicated to getting the right people around the table and challenging the process in every way.
3. The last 10% - This has been a theme in our conversations this week. We have a core value of having the crucial conversations, brining in the elephant in the room and speaking the last 10% of our conversations – speaking out what we are tempted to not say in fear that we might hurt someone’s feelings. However, no true progress can be made without having difficult conversations in love.
4. Team Leadership – It is not just a statement that hangs on a wall somewhere. It is applied and heavily encouraged, if not commanded.
5. Humility – It is modeled that we leave our egos and logos at the door.

These are just a few of the observations from the first 2 days of Grace Church’s fall 2011 Pastor’s Retreat…Looking forward to changing the world with these guys!

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Letter to Grace Church… “Rebuild!”

This weekend, we are kicking off a 4-week series called, “REBUILD”. I encourage you to do whatever it takes to be here for one of our 4 weekend services. It could change your life!

Wouldn’t it be amazing if God did a REBUILDING work in your life? What if you were given permission to REBUILD an area of your life which has been destroyed? What if you were shown how to REBUILD the foundation of your family, forever changing its trajectory? What if you could REBUILD the mess of your situation and transform it into a message?

We have been praying over this series for several weeks in hopes that it will spark a REBUILDING fire in your soul!

If you are planning on coming (and I hope you are), please join us in fervent prayer for God to radically move among us. If you are unable to join us in person, make sure you stream in and view us live at www.visitgracechurch.com.

Looking forward to an amazing four weeks!

Rebuild the mess and transform it into a MESSAGE”

See you this weekend!

pk

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Age is an Attitude! Don’t Give Me Excuses – Change the world!

“You’re too young!”
“You’re inexperienced!”
“Wait until you’re older!”

Josiah became the King of Judah in Jerusalem when he was 8 years old! By the time he was 16, he had developed a sincere heart to follow God. And by the time he was 20, he had cultivated a passion to put his faith into action. In typical youthful fashion, the Bible graphically says that Josiah…
– PURGED Judah of the wooden and carved images (false gods)
– BROKE DOWN the altars
– CUT DOWN images
– BEAT carved images into the GROUND
– BROKE INTO PIECES, and MADE DUST OF THE THEM and SCATTERED them on the ground
– BURNED THE BONES OF THE PRIESTS (of the false gods) ON THEIR ALTARS
– CLEANSED Judah and Jerusalem

Do you think that Josiah was passionate? He was 20 years old and yet God used him mightily to impact his generation for His FAME! If you are young or know someone who is young, I want you to inspire them to change the world for their generation! This is not just something that I say everyday, it is something that I believe from the core of my being!

Forget the lies that you have believed. When Jesus was 12 years old, He considered Himself and adult and was teaching in they temple. What are you doing to change the world? Video games?

If you have influence over the next generation (and we all do), encourage and inspire them to be world changers! Inspire them to do hard things. To risk. To become rebels of the NORMAL life and to impact their generation for Christ.

Josiah didn’t let his age get in his way. NO. He leveraged his youthful passion for GREAT things! You do the same. Now go. Be. Do.

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